(Note from Tim: This post was just contributed anonymously by one of our wisest commenters.) Just now I came very close to having words with a co-worker and I feel as if I must "tell" someone or I'll burst.
This young woman lives with her boyfriend, is pursuing a master's degree and plans to go on to finish with a professional/clinical program while he does something similar. Then, when they are done with school they will get married and, perhaps, have children when they will both already be in their 30's. She then explained about how a classmate of hers, who got several awards when they were in school is (said with a sneer), "Doing nothing, she doesn't even have her Associate's Degree". I said, "Nothing?" to which my co-worker responded, "She's a (another sneer) housewife." I asked if this former classmate had any children and yes, she does have one.
I simply replied that, then, she wasn't doing "nothing", was she? At which point I had to leave the room.
Oh, and my co-worker also volunteers for that champion of women everywhere, Planned Parenthood. Not surprising, is it?