October 2006

Missionaries on furlough pig out...

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Missionary children from Zambia and Hungary love being home for furlough on Halloween. They're all down in our living room right now, trading booty as Aunt Elaine watches, and--with Josh, Mary Lee, and me--begs.

For the curious, the Zambian missionaries are Mary, John, and Sarah Wegener; and Mandi, William, and Anna Olson are the Hungryians. (If you're wondering, Taylor's a buckanear.)

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African cheer...

A delightful description of life in Africa, from the BBC by way of David Wegener.

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Things too wonderful...

There are three things which are too wonderful for me, four which I do not understand: the way of an eagle in the sky... (Proverbs 30:18, 19)

Twice, today, I've looked on things too wonderful for me and I've been overwhelmed with God's beauty. First, looking at a maple tree sitting majestically in the sunshine and draped in all of its flaming Fall glory. It was set off more perfectly than usual by dark wet bark providing the perfect contrast to the tens of thousands of orange-red-green-yellow leaves. Maybe you wouldn't say the leaves were orange-red-green-yellow, but please remember I'm color blind. That's what they look like to me. Anyhow, we can agree that, whatever those colors should be called, they're stupendously unlike anything we see any other time of year.

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Second, arriving home Taylor and I went outside and played fetch with Ben and Michal's dog, Congo, who's staying with us while they're in South Africa. Congo's a purebred Black Labrador Retriever and boy does he retrieve! Throw the tennis ball as far as you can and he's off. Like a sleek black rocket he streaks across the lawn and road, grabbing the ball in his teeth--often catching it midair after only one or two bounces. Then he's streaking again, this time back to deposit the ball at his master's feet. It's amazing and, in a very different way than the maple tree, Congo too is stupendously beautiful. Shiny black coat, furiously fast, unerring timing to grab the bounce, and a heart made to please his master. Oh, that my heart would do only one thing all the time--please my Master.

Tell me, how did God come up with such beauty? What treasure chest did He open when He made maple trees and Black Labs? What other things are in His treasure chest? If this is only nature's way here on earth, what kind of stupendous beauty will we see when we gaze upon Heaven, the Angels, and God Himself--Father, Son, and Holy Spirit? Let us worship the Lord!

...things which eye has not seen and ear has not heard, and which have not entered the heart of man, all that God has prepared for those who love Him. (1 Corinthians 2:9b)

Bambi's Odyssey...

Off to the Loogootee corn maze tonight after a chili and corn meal muffin dinner. Some who ate dinner took a rain check on the corn maze so sixteen of us set off, eight in our minivan leading the way and eight following in the Olson ne Ewer van. It was about a forty-five minute drive.

Eight miles south of Bloomfield on Highway 231, Mary Lee yelled, "Deer!" I slammed on the brakes and our Honda Odyssey met Bambi. Sadly, Bambi died. Praise God, no one else did. Here's a picture of Bambi and the Odyssey, shortly after their collision:

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Since the entire front end of the Odyssey was smashed--radiator shoved into the engine, and so on--we had to leave it at the side of the road. Then we continued on to the corn maze, all sixteen of us crammed into the Olson ne Ewer van. Here's a picture taken shortly after we arrived:

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A couple miles down the road home after our time at the maze, all of a sudden Grant slammed on the brakes barely missing a ten-point buck. Earlier in the evening, we had prayed asking God for safety in our travels tonight. He answered and was merciful. We praise Him for His lovingkindness.

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Trick or treat...

Halloween approaches and once again the debate will rage: "To trick or treat or not to trick or treat; that is the question."

Being one of very many areas where Christians of good conscience differ, I trust I will not be a stumbling block to others by linking here and here to a couple posts I've made on this in the past.

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The victims of atheistic utopians and feminists: 1.35 billion and counting...

Not to canonize Mother Theresa, but when Brit journalist, Christopher Hitchens, attacked her in the most vile manner several years back, I noted his name and haven't forgotten his day of infamy. A couple days ago, then, I was disappointed to have a dear friend who serves as a pastor in the liberal Presbyterian Church (USA) E-mail me another attack on Mother Theresa by this same Hitchens. Responding to my friend, I wondered exactly how to sum up this evil that is Hitchens.

Fear not, Joe Sobran is up to the task. This from the latest (October 26, 2006) issue of the Roman Catholic weekly newspaper, The Wanderer:

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Christopher Hitchens, a vitriolic former Trotskyite, has shocked his old leftist comrades by joining the neocons and becoming an equally vitriolic defender of the Iraq war. He's also a militant atheist and has written a forthcoming book attacking religion. "Religion poisons everything," as he told a recent interviewer. A naturalized Englishman, he seems to be making his niche as our national village atheist.

Hitchens fancies himself an apostle of reason, which he sees as menaced by the superstitions of faith. Just to answer him at his own level, the atheistic regimes of the 20th century didn't do his cause much credit. If anything, Stalin, Mao, and their ilk proved that if a ruler doesn't acknowledge God, he's apt to try to make himself a god. And his attributes may not conspicuously include mercy.

A few years ago Hitchens wrote that the Catholic Church, in the Middle Ages, killed "millions." He didn't offer a source for this impressive (if somewhat vague) statistic; maybe he got it from the same place where Dan Brown learned that the Church had burned five million women as witches.

It takes some gall to dismiss so huge an area of human life as religious experience, especially when you evidently know nothing about it, except by hostile caricature. There is nothing quite like the credulity of the skeptic who is ready to believe any lie about the Church.

Consider the notorious Spanish Inquisition, still the staple of anti-Catholic polemics. Never mind that it was a government operation. It lasted over three centuries and killed fewer people than Stalin killed, on average, per day, roughly 5,000 in all. My purpose is not to defend it, but to restore a sense of proportion...

Feminists' existential desperation...

The chief attraction of ideology as a way of thinking about the world is that, in the absence of religious belief, it answers man's need for a purpose that transcends the humdrum tasks and flux of day-to-day existence in a settled democratic society. In doing so, it reassures the individual of his personal significance even as he frets about his insignificance. Of course, in the process it obliterates the distinction between the inherent limitations and travails of human life, for which religion used to provide both an explanation and a consolation, and the genuinely political sphere. On the contrary, it recognizes no inherent limitations to human life at all, which is why it has a tendency, in the words of Alice, to grow furiouser and furiouser, even as some of its ostensible ends are met. As equality of the sexes comes about, therefore, so feminists grow shriller: for the disparity between what is expected of social and political change, and what it actually produces in the way of personal satisfaction, is laid all too bare. The increased shrillness is a sign of existential desperation.

-Daniels, Anthony. "Up from communism." The New Criterion 21 (May 2003): 34-35.

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Housekeeping: Google Custom Search...

A couple housekeeping matters. Today Google came out with a new search engine option called Google Custom Search. A quick check showed GCS would provide a vastly superior search speed than the slow-as-molasses search box that "World's" servers offered, so we've made the switch. Actually, I began the switch taking the work to the point of no return where the whole page was messed up completely. Then I called my son, Joseph, and asked him if he would pleeease be so kind as to take the work over and fix my mistakes? He spent the rest of the day doing so, and now we have things up and running.

You'll notice our main text column is thinner, now, and that we've added a third column on the right side of the page. As time allows, we'll put up book recommendations--starting with the books written by our father, Joe Bayly.

Well, sorry we haven't been posting as frequently in the past week. Hope you like the changes. And do try out the new search engine--it's lightning fast and accurate.

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The gift of an older friend...

You shall rise up before the grayheaded and honor the aged, and you shall revere your God; I am the LORD. (Leviticus 19:32)

He was an eighty-year-old Spanish American War veteran and I was a seven-year-old boy who loved the circus. He had a television set in his house and the Baylys didn't, so after dinner every Thursday evening I'd walk down the block to his home and knock on the back door. After a long wait, Mr. Fedders would come and let me in. Then we'd walk to his front room where, together, we would watch the circus and the first half of Sing Along With Mitch. It was the only television and the only pipe smoke of my entire childhood, there at Mr. Fedders' Thursday evenings. It didn't matter how much Mr. Fedders liked the circus nor how much I liked Mitch. The two of us--one seven and the other quite ancient--were friends.

Older adults were always a part of the Bayly family. Whether it was my older brother and sister, Joseph and Deborah, cutting grass and shoveling snow for elderly people in our neighborhood, my two younger brothers, David and Nathan, hitting up the elderly lady across the street for candy, or Dad and Mud caring for a woman in her eighties in our home until she died, old age pensioners (as the Brits call them) were our friends. If we all had to choose a favorite, I'm sure it would be Aunt Gail. She wasn't a blood relation but she was a part of our family. We all have warm (and a few not so warm) memories of Aunt Gail. Here are a couple of my own.

When I was in junior high school I would walk over to Aunt Gail's house after school one day a week and spend the late afternoon and evening with her, until it was time for me to go to church for our weekly Boys Brigade meeting. (Our home was eleven miles out of town, so this saved my parents some driving.) Often there were little odd jobs Aunt Gail would wonder aloud whether I'd mind doing for her. The one I detested was washing windows...

Domestic help and wet nursing: a clarification...

( Note: Responding to the post, Carolyn Custis James versus Jeremy Taylor and Brother Lawrence..., our eldest daughter, Heather, sent an E-mail detailing some concerns she had with the post. Here are those concerns, followed by my response.)

Dad,

I like the first half of your latest post, but the second half will come across as harsh to many women. I think the quote from Jeremy Taylor will be seen less as an indictment of daycare and more as a requirement that all women nurse as opposed to bottle-feed.

And the sentence, "Certainly the temptation has always been there for wives and mothers of means to hire out their domestic and maternal responsibilities" makes it sound as though a woman can never hire anyone to help with duties around the house without feeling as though she has sacrificed her biblical duty. I think Mrs. Keebler was referring less to women hiring others to take over their child-rearing duties, and more to the times in history when all women with any money at all had, at the very least, one household help, because it wasn't possible to do it all oneself.

Many women today who have large families, homeschool, and also try to keep up with normal household duties would give their right arm to be able to afford someone just to come help clean, sometimes. I clearly remember (Jane Doe) talking about the unbelievable expectations being put on homeschooling moms that they be able to do it all.

Love, Heather

Dear Heather,

Thanks for the help. Please forgive me for not being sensitive to how my post would come across to wives and mothers. A little explanation is in order.

In my experience, there are two kinds of women who employ domestic help. There are women who consider domestic work to be beneath them and have the money to hire others to do all of it (or almost all of it) for them...

Feminists' useful lies: the slander of Thomas Aquinas...

(Note: Heresy is nourished by lies. With feminism, the lies come fast and furious, often repeated by naive souls who aren't aware that what they've been told is not true. Many could be listed, but here's one particularly noxious example that should be a warning to all of us to check our primary sources before we accuse dead men of things that aren't true. Our friend, Bill Mouser, sent me a copy of a letter he'd written his daughter, Geneva. I asked if I could post his letter. It all started when Geneva was debating feminism in her dorm one night...))

Thank you for relating the debate you had last night with the religious feminist in your dorm who challenged you saying Aquinas taught that females are defective males. You also mentioned Patricia Gundry's online book, Woman Be Free, as one place where an egalitarian writer condemns Aquinas for holding this terrible opinion about women. This idea gets batted around a lot by religious feminists and you'll find Gundry making the accusation here. (Do a text search for 'Aquinas'.)

In his Summa, Aquinas explores whether or not the Christian faith is compatible with Aristotle, a pre-Christian Greek philosopher who was all the rage at this point in European history. Here's the section where Gundry charges him with holding this view.

A refutation of this charge is contained in Michael Nolan's article, "What Aquinas Never Said About Women," published in First Things in November 1998. Nolan demonstrates that Aquinas not only never said what Gundry claims, but that Aquinas expressly denies this view six times.

Gundry (and many others) have taken Aquinas out of context in an egregious way...

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Carolyn Custis James versus Jeremy Taylor and Brother Lawrence...

(Note: Here is a comment left by a Mrs. Keebler under the post, "Carolyn Custis James: 'And my people love it so....'" Because of the nature of the questions Mrs. Keebler raises and the length of my response, both will be posted not only as comments, but also here on the main page.)

I had the extreme privelege of being under Carolyn Custis' Bible study for high school girls when she was in Dallas in the late 70's. It was so nice to be able to attend a serious doctrinal study for girls - our church had something for boys, but until then, nothing equivalent for girls. Over the period of two years in this girls-only study, I was able to be grounded in doctrine and thinking so that I was prepared for college. Is Carolyn guilty of making me a theologian? Now, I am not able to get into knock-down, drag out, Greek and Hebrew word discussions, but I am able to read and understand a lot, and doing so, am able to converse and discuss theological issues with my husband. We enjoy the pleasure of sharpening one another's understanding of God and His workings. Is being able to comprehend and discuss doctrine with one's husband being unsubmissive? Or must I take the attitude of an ignorant female who takes the crumbs that my husband throws to me?

Carolyn was also very strong on "relationship" advice for the girls in the study. She tried to steer us clear of the typical high school "I'm in love" periods and to think in terms of a forever relationship. It was during this time that she became engaged to Frank - as an older single. That is when I heard the best relationship advice I ever had. She said very clearly that she had made a decision to love Frank and that commitment would carry her through when there were things about him that she didn't like. I have remembered that advice many times in my marriage and pass it on to others freely.

As to not being a kitchen wife - what would you say about the previous ages when the wealthy had help in the kitchen and did not cook or clean or sew for themselves, but had servants to do the work for them? Seems to me that Abraham's wife Sarah had help and servants. Many of the O.T. heroes had servants. Were the women in these households being Mrs. Clintons, too? I think it unfair for you to equate the two women when you clearly do not know Carolyn personally. I suppose, though, that it is easier to disparage Carolyn when you can imply that she is just as unsubmissive and grasping as Mrs. Clinton.

Signed,
(Mrs.) Keebler

Dear Mrs. Keebler,

No, Mrs. James is not "guilty of making you a theologian." Every believer is a student of God and His Truth, or should be.

As I type at this desk, in a bookcase an arm's length to my right are a number of volumes by Amy Carmichael. And downstairs is the dining room where we discussed Roman Catholicism with Dave Howard and his brother-in-law and sister, Lars and Elisabeth Elliot Gren. In the living room each week a group of women meet who are wending their way through a rather large work of systematic theology. And last night I listened as Jon Crum led our youngest, Taylor, through a recitation of the first twenty or so questions of the Children's Catechism, which our daughters learned, also...

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