Caring for those who serve...
A good story on bicycle deliverymen in the New York Times focusing on a forty-year-old Chinese immigrant to the USA who serves as a restaurant deliveryman in Manhattan. The subject of the profile, Lin Dakang, a Christian, recently gained a green card as a refugee from religious persecution in China.
The story is moving, especially Mr. Lin's faith and desire to bring his wife and child to join him from China. And it provides lots to think about--the meaning of our tips as wealthy Americans to those less fortunate, the glory of America welcoming the poor and persecuted to her shores, the perverse stinginess of Americans begrudging men such as Mr. Lin their incomes and citizenship, even as we enjoy the fruits of our own ancestors freely coming to these shores in years gone by.
Watch and listen to Mr. Lin sing to God's glory in the accompanying video and see if your heart doesn't long for America's doors to swing open to many more such immigrants. (DB)




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Yep. Heart swelling.
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Regarding tips:
When I was working as a waiter, pay was ~half~ the current wage plus tips. That half-minimum wage was the portion from which income tax withholding, FICA, and medicare taxes were extracted. So, you didn't get any of that showing up in a paycheck.
In restaurants with busboys and cocktail waitresses, we had to pay out 3 percent of our total food sales to the busboys, and 10 percent of any alcoholic drink tab to the cocktail waitress.
If the customer was a bad tipper, a waiter could actually ~lose~ money on a table.
So, today, unless the waiter is a cad (and somehow some of these do get hired), I tip 15 percent and then add a couple of dollars to that, more than a couple if the service has been exemplary. And I am especially generous in places like IHOP where waitresses are often single mothers logging long hours while grandma keeps the baby(s).
What goes around, comes around, for good and bad. Want grace? Give grace.
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Capitalism is vicious, isnt' it? My dad has a thing against Walmart because he thinks they don't pay their people well, and my response to him is give the checkout clerk a tip just to even things out. But looking at that issue a little closer, there are people who work harder but get paid less than Mr. Lin. For a job like food delivery, which has easy entry and no skillset whatsoever, the marketplace has probably set an appropriate wage. A flight attendant is on duty more hours, gets a lower effective wage, but still she does the job for other reasons. A teacher might get low wages to start, but she has summers off. A shopkeeper risks every dime he has, and the rewards are not guaranteed. Each one of us makes infinite risk/reward calculations that guide our days and lives. If the reward isn't good enough, we move on to something else. But in the end, it is God who prospers us and provides our daily bread.
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I know this isn't the point of the post, but I never understand it when it's ok for men to leave their wives and children behind.
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I think another point which must be made, in the context of your current immigration debate, is that migrants are motivated, no matter how unskilled they are. Admittedly, I speak as a migrant (to the UK, & maybe Europe one day), so I'm a little biased, but I have seen this with many others.
Another, and much more important point, about immigration, is that it brings the mission field to you when you can't go to the mission field. This has happened in the UK, where a number (some thousands; not to be sneezed at), have come to faith from Muslim backgrounds. There's the opportunity - use it!
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Malorie,
To bring them to a better life. My great grandfather left hose wife and children behind when he first came over here. He worked until he saved enough money to send for them. After his experience at Ellis Island, he saved even more so he could book their passage through Boston.
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I second Kamilla's observation with a similar one of my own.
My wife's family immigrated from Switzerland in the mid-19th Century, settling in Illinois. Initially, two brothers came to scout out places to settle.
What they found was a vast section of Illinois that was unproductive swamp, and, therefore, exceedingly inexpensive. One brother returned to report the news, and the whole family immigrated to purchase many thousands of acres of swampland. They knew, however, how to drain it. The did drain it, and then owned many thousands of acres of extremely fertile farmland.
Those original patriarchs are still known by name among their descendants in the area around Elgin Illinois, who are still farming that fertile land.
It all started with two young men leaving their families to find a better place to live.
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>>their descendants in the area around Elgin Illinois
Dad worked, and David and I graduated from high school, in Elgin.
Love,
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It makes me take less stock in the idea that we should mourn the draining of these great swamps (an idea I got from the conservationists), to understand that real families were helped by the draining.
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I wonder what other turn-a-cold-shoulder-to-your-neighbor-to-help-a-mosquito ideas I've gotten from the conservationists that need to be revisited?
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Come to think of it, my own grandpa grew up in a farming family in Jasper county Indiana, in what used to be the bottom of a swamp. (I guess that's where my family has its bog-ginnings).
I never thought how close the Josh McBroom stories are to personal family history!
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Kamilla,
Thanks for your response. That makes it clearer to me.
-Malorie
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