"There was storm... and then a wolf."
by David and Tim Bayly on November 15, 2011 - 4:48am
A Christian confesses his faith, today, when he stays married to the same woman until death. When he continues to name his race "man" rather than "humans" or "human beings." When he chooses a church where he's sanctified rather than one where his wife is happy. A Christian confesses her faith, today, when she lets herself notice the beautiful diversity of manhood and womanhood, then calls attention to it.
We got a doll house with furniture off Craig's List a year ago...
and it sits in our alcove upstairs. A couple days ago my wife Mary Lee was taking care of two grandsons who are brothers, and she reports: "As Zion and Daniel went toward the doll house this morning, I was cautious as I like it to just be for the girls. I told them to be careful with it while I took my shower. When I came back there was doll furniture strewn all over."I asked, 'what happened here?' Daniel said, very matter of factly, 'There was storm... and then a wolf.'"
(TB)




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Years ago, just before Heather had our second son Nathan, Heather picked up a baby doll at garage sale under the auspices of teaching our then 17 month old Jonathan how to hold a baby. She just gave him the baby doll when she arrived home, placing it in his arms correctly. He looked down at the doll for a second or two in his arms. Then, grabbing the doll's feet in either hand he held the doll over his shoulder like a bat, turned to me and said, "Pitch, Daddy!"
Boys and girls are just hardwired differently. Anyone who argues differently isn't paying attention or has never had children.
A friend of mine taught 1st grade Sunday School. In her church, the children below grade 6 stayed with their parents during the service for a while and were then dismissed for Sunday School.* On Palm Sunday, everyone received a palm frond when they entered the sanctuary. Once my friend reached her Sunday School classroom, the girls were admiring their palms, braiding them, waving them in them in the air, etc. But every little guy was using them as a "weapon" in one way or another, such as swords in a sword fight or shotguns shooting at an imaginary target.
*They had adult Christian education too, just not on Sunday morning.
Several years ago friends told me about their son who was routinely asked by his sisters to join them in playing house with dolls. Being a nice brother, he'd usually do it. Apparently, though, he could only stand about five minutes before shouting, "Earthquake!" and wreaking havoc on everything.
That's my nephew!
And here I was thinking that confessing my faith usually had something to do with Jesus.
You guys are just as bad as the liberals you criticize. Wake up and realize that you are helping to create the problems that upset you so much.
>>And here I was thinking that confessing my faith usually had something to do with Jesus.
Dear John,
Fleeing adultery and keeping marriage vows "usually has something to do with Jesus," and in our wicked day, it's a loud and noble and potent confession of Christian faith.
Think about it and I'm sure you'll see your error.
Love,
So the moral of the story is that Biblical manhood is encouraging boys to treat girls' playthings and interests with contempt.
No, silly! But boys and girls are different, and when we admit that we are confessing the basic truth that "He made them male and female".
Yes, Scott. Precisely.
Haha. Wow. Some of the comments on these blog posts are just so rediculous! I can tell that the people who write them just cannot entertain the possibility of EVER agreeing with anything Tim or David say.
I liked the post, by the way. :)
If Tate had been there too, there would have been an enormous dinosaur involved. :-)
Too bad Amos wasn't there. He'd have stabbed that wolf with a sword...IN THE EYE!!
Concerning the rest, Christian faith must manifest itself in obedience. Take a look at the book of James. Sure, people who worship false gods may despise divorce and confess that boys and girls are different. That's not the point. The point is that faith without obedience is not really faith at all. We must not confess Christ in word only, but must love everything that he represents, including his holy law and the work that he has given us to do. This is nothing new.
>> Last I checked that was not the test of Christianity nor a Christian confession...at least not in the eyes of the God of the Bible.
B,
C'mon now, anyone could refuse to offer a pinch of incense or say "Caesar is Lord" too, and anyone could refuse to bow to the image -- such refusals didn't prove you were a Christian. But when Christians did it it was a mark of their faith -- a way of publicly confessing it.
Today nobody's asking us to offer a pinch of incense, but everyone is expected to say "him or her" at all times (using the generic "him" is ungodly by the secular religion) and we're expected to bow to the idea that there's no fundamental difference between male and female. Refusing to bow to the god of the age is an opportunity to confess our faith just like the other was for our fathers.
You wouldn't say that these things are of absolutely no consequence, would you, B? That would be to offer the pinch of incense and say you really didn't mean it. Surely that's not a better confession.
(p.s. - I'm speaking to you boldly, man to man. If you are a woman and declare yourself as e.g. "Ms. B", I will be gentler as befits conversation with a lady. But it would not be fitting to go easy on a man in the same way. If you are a man you need to be prodded on this.)
Wow, Chris. Really deep. Stumped us there. We see the light now. The thing is, I'd be willing to bet that you and several others who have commented here know exactly why marriage/divorce was brought up in light of someone professing Christ. You CAN put two and two together (even MY four year old nephew can do that.) You just don't want to.
Dear friends (and a few foes),
I'm deeply tired of the arguments of those who make the Christian faith a mind game devoid of action. Tim has not said anything that Scripture does not say. He has not said that a true profession excludes belief in Jesus. Far from it. But some of you are actually arguing that faith has no connection with obedience. And the Word is against you.
James 2:18 But someone will say, “You have faith and I have works.” Show me your faith rapart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.
I will profess my faith by my works. Others may think they profess faith without obedience, but they are liars and are not welcome here any more than they will one day be welcome in Heaven. We should have no patience for such dark clouds. Take your godless tripe elsewhere, deniers of God.
Love in Christ,
David Bayly
Have there been some comments removed? Some replies have been made to a "B" and a "Chris," but I do not see their comments.
Dear Jessica,
Yes. I removed them as scoffers until we have full names and contact info--our rule for those who attack. Tim usually lets the comments stay when asking for these items from commenters. I lack the patience. If they sign full names and give contact info privately, I'll reinstate the comments.
(They're my Wagner in the morning.)
Love in Christ,
David
Dear B,
Unless you lied about your email address, you received an email asking for your contact info hours ago.
Please respond before posting again. In the meantime, I'm pulling your most recent comment as I did the last one until you fulfill this requirement of all who desire to attack here.
Sincerely,
David Bayly
Recent bedtime reading for these children must have been: family devotions on Job; and then Little Red Riding Hood. Really cute kids. I love it.
Chris,
Please send me what I asked for the way I asked for it or stay off the comments.
Love in Christ,
David Bayly
Hi: Just a quick Story about a card I received from a young boy from our church... I have cancer and so I received a card and it said (among other things), "cancer stinks" and "the color for cancer shouldn't be pink", I called him to thank him and said that I agreed, the color for cancer should be puke green or something, he replied: "Definitely!" Love it.
Terry
Mild-mannered son Benjamin (in Kindergarten) was working on math. His task was to cross out the wrong answers. By the time I saw his work, he had not only crossed them out, but also "set them on fire" using his crayon skills.
Which suggests a great way to mark out offending anonymous comments here: have a fire-and-brimstone graphic stamped over the comments so that just the pseudonym remains. Underneath a statement like "Guilty: anonymous conscience-sniper"
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