Aunt Elaine helped build the World Trade Center...
For six years ending late December of 2006 when she went to be with the Lord, my Dad's sister, Elaine Bayly, lived with us here in Bloomington. She arrived just days before 9/11 and she brought a personal perspective on that day because she'd spent years of her life building the World Trade Center. Thus 9/11 and Aunt Elaine have always been bound together in our family's memory.
Aunt Elaine spent about seventy years in the same apartment on Parsons Blvd. in the Flushing neighborhood of Queens and for a number of those years she worked as a secretary for the project manager of the construction of the World Trade Center, the Tishman Company.
Elaine was personal secretary to Tishman's number one and number two men on the project and her dear friend Abe Levine (number two holding the position of Deputy Construction Manager) provides this account of Aunt Elaine's work there.
We had nine secretaries, but at the World Trade Center she was the personal secretary to the man at the top and the second in command. She took shorthand at a mile a minute. We turned out hundreds of letters a week.
We had documents that ran forty to fifty pages, and some of them had to be done over again, every single week—like the minutes of our official meetings. She did those and she did them to perfection—like a masterpiece. They were full of technical stuff (we were doing engineering) and they were always done to perfection.
The other girls all looked up to her. Everyone respected her. When she did a letter, it was a masterpiece. No one else was like that.
It was extremely hectic at the World Trade Center. One day we were having a meeting with the Port Authority—all the bigwigs...
We had one secretary who was a big lady. She used to be a policewoman and her name was Jean. Another woman was very small and a chronic complainer—very grumpy.
One day we were having our meeting with the Port Authority and Elaine came into the meeting and gave me a note that said, ‘The big secretary and the little secretary are having a terrible argument.’
All I could do was nod my head and hand the note back.
A few minutes later, Elaine came in and handed another note to me that said, ‘The little one hit the big one and the big one is crying.’
Again, all I could do was nod my head and smile. She went out and had to handle it. She was like a mother to them, a mentor to all the secretaries. She was reserved, but not with them. With the other secretaries—I call them ‘the girls’—she was very outgoing with them.”
After the first World Trade Center bombing (in the minutes before the second tower was hit and they both collapsed), Aunt Elaine’s reaction was to announce, with authority, “Oh they’d never knock that down. If they knew how deep the pylons went. They’d never knock that down.”
We miss Aunt Elaine and give thanks to God for the years He blessed our home by her usually cheerful presence.




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I didn't know she would become my aunt, too...
When I was a first-year graduate student in music at IU and fairly new to Bloomington, Tim and Mary Lee gave me the unforgettable privilege of caring for Aunt Elaine. She was in her early 90's and in pretty good health (for her age), although unable to walk and needing help with basic daily tasks--so that's what I was occasionally for. When Mary Lee needed to run an errand and even when the Baylys went overseas for a few weeks, my sweet pastor's wife would call on me to look after their beloved aunt. I'm sure that they knew that I would grow spiritually doing this good work, but I had no idea how much God would teach me through caring for their dear aunt.
Aunt Elaine loved God very much. This was most clearly evidenced by her contentment with her circumstances during her old age, and yet at the same time, her displaying a constant yearning to be with God--whenever He would call her home. She sang bits of hymns from morning till night. It was a joy to hear these, sometimes barely audible, praises to her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Because of this witness to Him in her everyday life, just sitting there in the living room on the couch in "her spot," I began to want to know more of this "perfect love" of which she sang (O Perfect Love--one of her favorite hymns).
I grew fond of Aunt Elaine very quickly. It also didn't hurt that she had a great sense of humor (once telling a home-health nurse that "she was just doin' her job--holding down the couch"). This was hilarious coming from such a petite woman. Regardless of how small she was, it is true that Aunt Elaine was not afraid to speak her mind. I have fond memories of her asking me about my "burly" fiance. And yes, I do have one of the strongest husbands ever! Aunt Elaine was quite complementary and kind toward me. I wonder if this may have been God's mercy in helping me (and all my pride) to do the humbling and unnoticed work of caring for the elderly.
I also learned, during that time of my life, just how humbling it is to age. She welcomed the sanctification God brought to her in her last years on earth and God used this humble woman to sanctify me! What a gift to have been able to be friends with a godly woman, four times my age! I knew Aunt Elaine for about three years, and yet it feels like I knew her longer than that. We have a beautiful photo of Aunt Elaine that hangs on our refrigerator, taken at Dave and my wedding. She was about 93 (I think) in that photo and radiates life! I miss Aunt Elaine, too. It is good to have people that tie our hearts to heaven!
Tim,
Thanks for sharing this tribute to your beloved Aunt Elaine. She must have been a remarkable woman in so many ways. Your whole family must be excited about the day when you will be reunited with her again.
Vanessa,
I hadn't realized you helped care for her as well. From what I know of you, and what I've learned of her from reading here, I can only imagine how sweet your fellowship was when you were with her.
I love you and that burly husband of yours as well!
Kamilla
Didn't Aunt Elaine pass away in 2007?
http://www.baylyblog.com/2007/12/elaine-curriden.html
Yes, December 28, 2007.
Love,
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