Contraception or birth control: a matter of life and death...

...for the foetus, though enclosed in the womb of its mother, is already a human being, and it is almost a monstrous crime to rob it of the life which it has not yet begun to enjoy. If it seems more horrible to kill a man in his own house than in a field, because a man’s house is his place of most secure refuge, it ought surely to be deemed more atrocious to destroy a foetus in the womb before it has come to light. (John Calvin)

(Tim) Readers familiar with Baylyblog are aware my brother and I believe most use of contraception is contrary to the will of God Who commanded us to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:22, 28; 8:17; 9:1, 7; 35:11; Jeremiah 23:3) and to propogate for Him a godly seed (Malachi 2:15). This is the reaon the Westminster Confession (XXIV, 2) explicitly states fruitfulness is one of the three purposes God created marriage. Still today, this reason is recited in the wedding liturgy used by Biblical pastors presiding over wedding ceremonies. Listen for it.

We don't believe every married couple has a Biblical duty to have as many children as physically possible, yet it should be our joy to give ourselves to what God has commanded and to receive His blessings with glad hearts. We live in an evil day, though, when even among the People of God, couples are expected to justify their Biblical faithfulness in this area and if they give themselves to Biblical fruitfulness, they feel the weight of other Christians disapproving of their hard work and asking them to justify it.

Beyond faithlessness in childbearing, Christians today are also faithless in the methods of contraception they use. Which is to say that as convenience is the basic concern behind couples choosing not to have lots of children, so convenience is the basic concern behind which method of contraception they use.

Let me say this clearly...

: as faithless as much use of contraception within the Church today is, it is much worse to exchange contraception for birth control and abort our little ones because of our careless use of pills and other abortifacients. It's one thing to take action to keep a child from being conceived (that is, to use contra ception); it's quite another thing to take action to keep a child already conceived from being born (that is, to use birth control and to murder that child).

If you're trying to keep from having more children, do you know whether you're using contraception or birth control? Do you know whether you're keeping a child from being conceived or keeping a conceived child from being born?

You must know this. Many, many souls claiming the Name of Christ have murdered their unborn children unknowingly by using a pill or other medical device that prevents a conceived child from making it to birth rather than preventing a child from being conceived.

How can you tell the difference? Sad to say, you can't trust the medical authorities. Back about fifty years ago, physicians changed the definition of "conception" to fool you and all their other patients into thinking you were preventing a child from being conceived when really you were (and are) preventing your little baby from surviving after he or she has already been conceived.

So what to do? Read. Study. Here and here are a couple places to start.

And as you read, keep two things in mind.

First, when a woman's egg is fertilized, at that moment a new man bearing the Image of God has come into existence and it is our obligation to protect him. We don't take unncessary risks with his life because, as John Calvin says above, the womb should be a place of "most secure refuge."

Second, when in doubt, err on the side of life. There's a limit to what we can and should do to protect life, but for you to avoid the use of birth control pills and devices that prevent your unborn child from taking up residence on the wall of your uterus and safely finishing out his term there is no high hurdle or unreasonable act of charity on your part toward your little child. All it requires is that you not use the Pill and other birth control devices that sometimes work by preventing him from availing himself of the safety of his mother's womb.

Comments

I must say we're blessed to be in a church where when someone announces a pregnancy the reaction is entirely joyful. Roughly half the Christians in our church are seven and under. It is a very wonderful dynamic.

In response to David Gray's comment: Amen! What a blessing!

Yes, have lots of kids whether or not you can raise them.

Janine,

What is your purpose here? Because all I can see is a remarkably childish sort of "I am rubber, you are glue . . ." taunting.

Honestly, if you really want to see how the children are raised in Clear Note Church, I would be happy to pay your registration fee for the summer conference. If you're closer to Toledo, I'm sure we could find an opportunity for you to attend there instead.

Otherwise, back away from the keyboard or you are going to convince others, as you have me, that you are really only about 11 years old.

Janine's statement reminds me of Rabshekah's taunt:
"Now therefore, I urge you, give a pledge to my master the king of Assyria, and I will give you two thousand horses--if you are able on your part to put riders on them!" - 2 Kings 18:23 NKJV

If the Lord has given us no command, by all means let us find a way that seems good to us. But if He has -- who are we to question the might of the Lord of hosts?

Speak for yourself Janine.

Thank you for this article. We were told to use the birth control pill when we married over 25 years ago. It took several years before we heard that it could act as an abortifacient. We did some research after that and were horrified. We told a few family members at that time. I'm not sure they believed us.

We went on to give birth to 7 children. I did have 2 miscarriages also. As I continued to read about the pill I discovered that miscarriage is not uncommon after pill usage.

Janine,

Actually, your concern is one that's shared by countless mothers and fathers. I have those fears and I know my wife does, too: Can we afford another child? Do we have the energy to discipline another one? Wouldn't it be better to raise two children really well than five poorly? Will we have time to show our love to every one of them? How in the world will we put them through college?

The answer to each question, though, is to walk by faith. Same as in every area of life. If what the Baylys teach here is Biblical then we need to trust and obey God. It's always easier in the short run to walk by sight but God gives the grace we need and the faith we lack in due time. I am constantly tempted to give in to fear (in many areas) but God just as constantly supplies grace, mercy and more faith when it's needed.

Matthew, Actually I was speaking...

NOTE FROM TIM BAYLY: A while ago, I told "Janine" she was not allowed to post here any more. She's consistently mocked God, His Word, and His people. But she keeps commenting.

David and I are men under authority called by God to exercise authority in guarding His flock. Janine will no longer be allowed to comment, here.

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Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.

The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away. Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish. (Psalms 1:1-6)

Love,

Thanks for educating the flock Tim, it is all to easy to end up on the pill. Especially considering the way doctors push hormonal birth control.

Getting married approximately when Deb did (1986), my primary care doctor laid out all available birth control options to me. She discussed their pros and cons in terms of effectiveness and side effects, and also gave me much of the same information in booklet form to share with my future husband. When discussing the various types of birth control pills, she didn't include anything about the pill's 3rd mechanism, that of preventing implantation -- but maybe she didn't even know about it herself then. And FWIW, she didn't try to push me into selecting any particularly BC method.

We discussed BC in premarital counseling but it was more in the context that we both agreed on what we would do about it and how long we planned to use it before trying to have children.

Even Planned Parenthood admitted on their website a few years back that "the pill" can act as an abortafacient. I should ahve taken a screenshot, because several mentions of this on various PP websites have been scrubbed.

Thanks again for the encouragement here; I've been working through "be fruitful and multiply" in light of the concept that one is not multiplying well if one gets his wife or kids maimed or killed in the process.

Otherwise, it's worth remembering that our ancestors somehow managed to raise 5-6 kids in a 500 square foot tenement, ending up in general with productive members of society on a wage that most fry chefs at McDonald's would sneer at today.

Sadly, I think my generation (80's babies) doesn't have an excuse. The information about birth control has been widely available to us, and as Tim points out, we don't care. We wouldn't care enough to find out whether we could be aborting a little one. How full of death are we?! We're instantly aware of the slaughter that takes place all around the world, but ignorant when it could be happening in our own bodies? Come on. Proverbs 24 comes to mind:

Rescue those who are being taken away to death; hold back those who are stumbling to the slaughter. If you say, “Behold, we did not know this,” does not he who weighs the heart perceive it? Does not he who keeps watch over your soul know it, and will he not repay man naccording to his work?

So, I agree it's that we're careless, but in most cases I don't think my generation is "unknowing." I think we're hard-hearted and ignorant, and I don't mean "lacking information."

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