Oxford coeds put children first...

One swallow doth not a summer make, but we’ve got two and I’m hopeful.

First, the day before yesterday I heard NPR hawking a story they’d be broadcasting the next day. Maybe some of you heard it? The lead-in was the statement that young people have been less religious than their parents for decades, now, with the trend increasing. But now, the trend is reversing and parents aren’t pleased. This is the story of our own congregation...

Regularly we have undergrad and grad students who have come to faith in the Lord and are now lovers of His Church and Word. But rather than rejoicing, their parents do everything they can to subvert, and even actively oppose, their child’s Christian faith. I tremble at the thought of the judgment seat of God and find myself wondering if it would not go better for these fathers and mothers if they had aborted their child than it will go for those who have intentionally placed stumbling blocks before their son’s or daughter’s faith in Jesus Christ?

Second, my son Joseph just forwarded a print story about Oxford (dare I say it?) coeds written by Lucy Tobin who’s in her second year of an English degree at Lady Margaret Hall, Oxford. Tobin begins:

A group of women students at Oxford are scrutinising a photo of 100 beaming freshers, wondering who will end up being famous. As an Oxford undergraduate myself, I am part of the group and I notice that, after identifying candidates for Prime Minister, next year's Pop Idol and a university professor, the girls all discount themselves from the top of any career ladder on the grounds that their maternal ambitions are stronger than their professional aims. Oxford's undergraduates are billed as among Britain's brainiest, but we female students are prioritising marriage and children over a career.… Feminists may be shocked.

Students being given the gift of faith in Jesus Christ; other students knowing already, as undergrads, that they’ll love their children more than whatever status and money their careers offer. Hope springs eternal from this human pest.

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You know, parental opposition was one thing that my fellowship in college--church based in Lansing, MI--constantly faced. We were blessed (and that church is still blessed) to have a lot of new converts from all faiths and lacks of faith, and from all places at MSU. I was and am one of the redeemed. Whenever the faithless are confronted by the faithful, there will be opposition. And what a JOY to see that even in the "most" academic of settings, where the political correctness is spread the thickest, young ladies are still catching on to the fact that they can be wives and moms. Isn't common grace wonderful?

My thoughts on the Oxford case is that many of the coeds there are daughters of the feminists from the 60s and 70s. They've seen the fruit of feminism and have come to the conclusion that it's better to imitate grandmother rather than mum.

The parents who are upset about their kids coming to faith are the last remains of the " Age of Aquarius " generation which I am part of myself. We grew up at the end of the 60's and early 70's, so we had a whole decade of sex, drugs rock n' roll and " sticking to the man." The parents of these kids are still living in that time period or the punk/disco age. Their children have seen first hand that the worldview of their parents " are broken jars which can hold no water." I am an older parent myself (my son just graduated from high school and I am in my 50's) I am thankful to God that in the mess which was the 60's and early 70's He brought me to Himself and saved me. I am thankful that I was able to give my son a covenant home and not the " Age of Aquarius " revisited.

I'm an educated lady who decided that family is more important. The reason why I pursued grad school is because I was still "extremely" single (as in, hadn't had a real date in my life) and wasn't sure I'd ever get married, and my parents CERTAINLY weren't going to let me "just" run a catering service. Yes, I still lived with them, if you consider constant scream-fighting "living." I became a Christian during grad school, and then had an uphill battle because my father is lukewarm and thought I was turning into a nut. (He also loved to fill my head with weird ideas he got from "science" and "religion" shows on TV.) When my husband and I got pregnant (as you well know, it's not just the wife who gets pregnant!), I announced that I would stop earning taxable income entirely. My dad immediately suggested that I could "just take a few clients"--although it had been demonstrated ad nauseam that there is no such thing as a "part-time law practice." After all, it would be "such a shame" to "waste" my education. (As if I weren't now more qualified to teach my own children than any public school teacher!) Fortunately, he's now reconciled to the notion that it's best if I concentrate all my efforts on our "messy blessing." All this I write so as to agree completely with what you've written here: that Generation X girls are really starting to grow up and recognize reality, and that worldly, contented parents can be a massive impediment to their children's growth in the Lord.

I once overheard an up-and-coming opera star in graduate school say that if she had a choice between spending her days singing for thousands of people or singing lullabies to her babies, she'd choose the latter.

I've earned my post-bacc sheepskin, too. But shame, shame, shame! I decided to forsake all that (expensive) professional training to be a stay at home mom for the past seven years (almost three of them homeschooling). My, aren't my relatives up in arms! Never mind that, through teaching my own children, I am also receiving the education I never had (come on, don't be shocked, we all know what HASN'T been going on in the public school system for the past 40 years.) No, I'm just wasting my life away, caring for one of the most wonderful gifts God has given me, my family. I hope and pray for this younger generation, as they discover the blessing in cherisihing their spouses and children. Perhaps at some point society as a whole will get smart enough to ask "Why?"

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